Friday, March 27, 2026

Nonfiction: The Flower Bearers by Rachel Eliza Griffiths

It was the description on the book jacket that got me on this one, as well as the fact that the author is the fifth wife of famous writer Salman Rushdie. I was in search of a "serious" memoir, and Rachel Eliza Griffiths' The Flower Bearers would prove to fulfil the purpose.

Genre, Themes, History: This is a nonfiction book written by poet and visual artist Rachel Eliza Griffiths. It is a memoir that focuses most specifically on her relationship with her best friend, poet Kamilah Aisha Moon, who passed away suddenly on the day of Griffith's wedding to author Salman Rushdie. Less than a year later, Rushdie would be brutally attacked while speaking at an event, nearly losing his life after being stabbed multiple times. Griffith's book is about the two momentous events, and so much more, including the pandemic, the death of her mother, and her mental health struggles in the midst of all of it.

My Verdict: I admire any author who is able to pack so much life and story and introspection into less than 350 pages. Not only does Griffith talk about her relationship with and the death of Moon, as well as her marriage to Rushdie, but she examines her childhood with the mother that would not live to see the wedding, and discusses in depth her own experience with dissociative identity disorder. In a book that talks about being the fifth wife of a famous author, and the grisly attempt on his life, it is strange how that is not even the most interesting part of the book. Plus, there is Griffith's own writing and poetry that is discussed, as well as Moon's. It is a stunning memoir that is surprisingly easy to read, given the content, while also being heartbreaking, and ultimately quite joyful.

Favorite Moment: I enjoyed reading about Griffiths' time in college, in particular her years at Sarah Lawrence with Moon.

Recommended Reading: I recommend Alice Walker's In Search of Our Mothers' Gardens, as Walker was a favorite author of Moon's. 

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